Thursday, August 31, 2006
Wednesday, August 30, 2006
Writer's block
Hence no blogging for ages! I think I'll try to get into the habit again though.
In good news
* Got a payrise at work this month and now have an acceptable salary. Yay!
* The church is booked for the wedding. The brilliant Nicholas Vesey will be presiding
* We're still attending St Augustine's and still enjoying it (!!!!!!)
* I have a week off work next week to recharge which will be loverly
* Grandpa is 91 today and says he's going to try to hang on to see the wedding, so that's good
In not so good news
*Ben is looking for a job
* I can't solve this puzzle, help me!
I keep meaning to blog on some stuff I've been reading about marriage but it keeps coming out as a rant. I will keep trying, and meanwhile here's what I've been reading
In good news
* Got a payrise at work this month and now have an acceptable salary. Yay!
* The church is booked for the wedding. The brilliant Nicholas Vesey will be presiding
* We're still attending St Augustine's and still enjoying it (!!!!!!)
* I have a week off work next week to recharge which will be loverly
* Grandpa is 91 today and says he's going to try to hang on to see the wedding, so that's good
In not so good news
*Ben is looking for a job
* I can't solve this puzzle, help me!
I keep meaning to blog on some stuff I've been reading about marriage but it keeps coming out as a rant. I will keep trying, and meanwhile here's what I've been reading
Monday, August 07, 2006
The reception is booked!
Today I booked the reception venue for our wedding - 1 September 2007 is the date and this is the place. it's the hotel I was a waitress at during my gap year and they do pretty weddings - I used to help set them up so it will be a novelty to be a guest!
As far as the other plans are going, we've yet to book a church, have made another rough guest list after losing the original one, and have considered timetable for the day, entertainment and top table nightmares amongst other things. Only 101 things left to do! It's all fun but Ben is absolutely right.
As far as the other plans are going, we've yet to book a church, have made another rough guest list after losing the original one, and have considered timetable for the day, entertainment and top table nightmares amongst other things. Only 101 things left to do! It's all fun but Ben is absolutely right.
Desperate Housewives
Desperate Housewives Season 1 DVD box set entered our house with new lodger/my bestfriend/bridesmaid to be and we've been hooked since the first episode! I forgot how addictive television can be. After living in a television free zone for nine months it's kinda nice to catch up on what my office have been talking about for months, and I was very impressed with the quality of the programme.
Can't wait til next month's pay day so we can maybe get Series 2!
Can't wait til next month's pay day so we can maybe get Series 2!
Jodi Picoult
I can't decide if I like her or not! See here for a list of books.
So far I've read The Pact, My Sister's Keeper, Salem Falls and Plain Truth. Each of them has been a gripping read, but they all have exactly the same elements - an out of the ordinary questionable crime commited, a client who has a big impact on the lawyer, a love interest for the lawyer, an overbearing parent, each culminates in a big trial where you don't know the truth til the very last minute, and there's quite often a twist right at the end.
So better writing than Dan Brown, but not an awful lot more imagination when it comes to plots! Nevertheless, her ever growing list of titles shall stay on my to read list as backups.
So far I've read The Pact, My Sister's Keeper, Salem Falls and Plain Truth. Each of them has been a gripping read, but they all have exactly the same elements - an out of the ordinary questionable crime commited, a client who has a big impact on the lawyer, a love interest for the lawyer, an overbearing parent, each culminates in a big trial where you don't know the truth til the very last minute, and there's quite often a twist right at the end.
So better writing than Dan Brown, but not an awful lot more imagination when it comes to plots! Nevertheless, her ever growing list of titles shall stay on my to read list as backups.
Friday, July 28, 2006
Girls rule and boys drool
Ben has been in Derbyshire on a lads camping trip for a few days and I'm been girlying with my soon to be bridesmaid Loz. Manicures, face masks, chic flicks and shopping... I've yet to find the perfect summer dress!
I recognised a garden near our house today and realised I'd seen it on the Reality website last night - well done guys! No idea what was there before but it looks good.
I recognised a garden near our house today and realised I'd seen it on the Reality website last night - well done guys! No idea what was there before but it looks good.
Thursday, July 06, 2006
Musings on parents and forgiveness
I had a thought this morning that I'd like to open my Bible, but then I thought that maybe wouldn't be a good thing to do. I'm at work, and at that moment I was being paid to work. It occurred to me that it wouldn't really be honouring God to read the Bible instead of being a good employee and doing the work I'm paid to do.
St Augustine's is still pretty good. Last Sunday was the end of a divine consciousness course or something and I gather half the people there had been on this mid-week course and had come to church for the end of it. They all seemed very alert spiritual people. I don't know if any were Christians or if they ever went to church, but it was cool to see that even if they didn't, they were still aware of their creator and were looking to him and hearing his whispers to them through their everyday lives. The service started with looking through newspapers and cutting out an article that inspired or touched you. That was challenging - I don't think I very often let things touch me.
The talk mentioned that St Augustine's had been meeting on that site for over 800 years, and how forgiveness was a key point in making something last that long. The main reason for relationships breaking down, whether it be marriages (apparently lasting 7 years on average!!!) or bands (5 years average), is that people eventually get to something that they find it impossible to forgive. Nicholas talked about needing to forgive the church for doing stupid and wrong things at times which is a good point. I've often been annoyed at the church for various things and have chosen to leave it completely for a while, but now going back to church I see that it might be a struggle at times but part of having a relationship with a community like that is practising love and forgiveness. I think the thing that touched me about the service was that I need to forgive.
More cool things about forgiveness along the families theme have cropped up this week - Dave's blog on his father is interesting, Ben's comment too. Especially the concept that we probably all have that we'll turn out to be like our parents and do to our children what they have done to us. Sometimes I marvel at the way Ben deals with his father and I know that his legacy to our children will be amazing because he's undone what his father has done to him by forgiving and loving him, and that will give him a huge advantage when he's a parent. There's a theme in the Bible about families being cursed for the next few generation when people ignore God - an example from today's society is that it's often parents who were abused themselves who abuse their children. Horridness can be an everlasting cycle until someone chooses to break the chain. The flip side to the Bible's take on this is huge blessing when a link in that chain is broken and someone decides to do what is right. When that happens the Bible says generations (lots of them) will be blessed as a result:
'For I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children or the sin of the father to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me, but showing love to a thousand generations of those who love me and keep my commandments.' - Exodus 20
Love and forgiveness have huge impacts beyond out imaginations. I totally agree with Dave that it's really hard when parents don't acknowledge that they're spanners and when they keep making life difficult. For me it's a work in progress and I know God will win in both me and my mum, maybe my dad too.
'Do not hold us against the sins of the fathers; may your mercy come quickly to meet us, for we are in desperate need... We your people, the sheep of your pasture, will praise you forever and ever; from generation to generation we will recount your praise.' - Psalm 79
St Augustine's is still pretty good. Last Sunday was the end of a divine consciousness course or something and I gather half the people there had been on this mid-week course and had come to church for the end of it. They all seemed very alert spiritual people. I don't know if any were Christians or if they ever went to church, but it was cool to see that even if they didn't, they were still aware of their creator and were looking to him and hearing his whispers to them through their everyday lives. The service started with looking through newspapers and cutting out an article that inspired or touched you. That was challenging - I don't think I very often let things touch me.
The talk mentioned that St Augustine's had been meeting on that site for over 800 years, and how forgiveness was a key point in making something last that long. The main reason for relationships breaking down, whether it be marriages (apparently lasting 7 years on average!!!) or bands (5 years average), is that people eventually get to something that they find it impossible to forgive. Nicholas talked about needing to forgive the church for doing stupid and wrong things at times which is a good point. I've often been annoyed at the church for various things and have chosen to leave it completely for a while, but now going back to church I see that it might be a struggle at times but part of having a relationship with a community like that is practising love and forgiveness. I think the thing that touched me about the service was that I need to forgive.
More cool things about forgiveness along the families theme have cropped up this week - Dave's blog on his father is interesting, Ben's comment too. Especially the concept that we probably all have that we'll turn out to be like our parents and do to our children what they have done to us. Sometimes I marvel at the way Ben deals with his father and I know that his legacy to our children will be amazing because he's undone what his father has done to him by forgiving and loving him, and that will give him a huge advantage when he's a parent. There's a theme in the Bible about families being cursed for the next few generation when people ignore God - an example from today's society is that it's often parents who were abused themselves who abuse their children. Horridness can be an everlasting cycle until someone chooses to break the chain. The flip side to the Bible's take on this is huge blessing when a link in that chain is broken and someone decides to do what is right. When that happens the Bible says generations (lots of them) will be blessed as a result:
'For I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children or the sin of the father to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me, but showing love to a thousand generations of those who love me and keep my commandments.' - Exodus 20
Love and forgiveness have huge impacts beyond out imaginations. I totally agree with Dave that it's really hard when parents don't acknowledge that they're spanners and when they keep making life difficult. For me it's a work in progress and I know God will win in both me and my mum, maybe my dad too.
'Do not hold us against the sins of the fathers; may your mercy come quickly to meet us, for we are in desperate need... We your people, the sheep of your pasture, will praise you forever and ever; from generation to generation we will recount your praise.' - Psalm 79
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